Some of the most difficult trials are initiated through the actions of others. A moment’s inattention by a driver cripples a child and begins a life-long trial for the child, his parents, his brothers, and his sisters. An abusive parent damages a child, and that child in turn passes the abuse and pain down to another generation. Wonderful parents lovingly and carefully rear a son or daughter who strays far away from the principles received in childhood and who responds to parental love with rebellion, insult, and anger. An adulterous father focused on satisfying his own lusts destroys the peace and security of an innocent wife and children. A terrorist bomb breaks the bodies of innocents and hurls their minds into a world of ceaseless fear.
The existence of such experiences leads some to doubt. “If there is a God,” they ask, “why does He allow such terrible things to happen?” Such doubt may lead to criticism of a loving Father. “A just God would have prevented this tragedy from occurring. God must be capricious, distant, and uncaring to permit the world to be so full of pain.”
This earth is first and foremost an accelerated learning environment wherein God’s children are given the opportunity to grow at a rate much faster than they can appreciate before they arrive here. For those who do not understand its true nature, a spiritual classroom seems capricious and unreasonable, particularly if they enter that classroom without understanding they will receive final examinations in a variety of subjects. They have forgotten that they signed up for the classes and the examinations as the capstone to thousands of years of prior education before they came to earth.
While each of us commits sin and must pass the part of our examination relating to repentance, these are not all of the questions on the examination. Other questions assess how well we remember the love of Christ when we suffer without fault. We may understand the Atonement in theory, but will we really apply its healing and strengthening power in practice when distracting disaster and despair enter our lives?
In a multiple-choice question, can we identify the Holy Ghost and distinguish his direction from a host of competing voices? An essay question asks us to explain the reasons that the redemptive power of Christ can overcome all obstacles and is more powerful than any sorrow we may encounter in mortality. The question asks us to provide examples from our own experience.
Without affliction, we would not have the opportunity to choose God when that choice is most difficult. We are capable of making that choice, but we have to prove that we will make such a choice under every circumstance. We are confronted with a wide variety of experiences, including some ghastly ones, and then asked, “Where is your heart, really? What name is written on it? Who do you choose?” When we choose God in the most adverse conditions, we are chosen in return.
“I have chosen thee in the furnace of affliction.” (Isaiah 48:10; 1 Nephi 20:10)
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David P. Vandagriff
I Need Thee Every Hour – Applying the Atonement in Everyday Life
The greatest work of Christ is centered upon His Atonement. So long as there is anyone in pain, His work will continue. So long as there is anyone suffering under the burden of sin, His work will continue. So long as there is anyone who is afraid or lonely, His work will continue. So long as there is anyone who sorrows, His work will continue. So long as there is anyone who has been faithful and who needs to be lifted up and brought back to their Heavenly Father, His work will continue.
David P. Vandagriff
I Need Thee Every Hour – Applying the Atonement in Everyday Life
What is the greatest manifestation of God’s love for us? A familiar scripture provides the answer. “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
How does Christ make that happen – not perishing, having eternal life?
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Each of us experiences a constant downward pull as we live inside mortal bodies on a mortal planet. Sometimes that pull is stronger and sometimes it is weaker, but in some way it is always present. That downward pull will turn even the best of us into natural men and natural women unless we constantly strive to offset it with an upward spiritual movement toward the Savior. The Holy Ghost will remind us of what we should be doing if we listen and will help us move upward, but the initial effort must be ours.
Putting off the natural man is not something we do once or twice in our lives. It requires a daily, sometimes hourly, sometimes minute-by-minute effort. We can’t become saints in a single giant leap and then sit back and relax. We must constantly be working at that saintly becoming, sometimes moving forward, at other times working our way back from a downward slide. Becoming, changing, moving to be a better person is the core activity of our mortal lives, and we cannot make those vital and constant changes without the strength the Atonement provides.
David P. Vandagriff
I Need Thee Every Hour – Applying the Atonement in Everyday Life
If we need to feel the Atonement working in our lives, the most reliable way to do so is to serve others. When I have counseled someone who is in the process of repenting from a serious sin, I often recommend that he or she make an effort to serve others. This isn’t a strategy for them to “earn their way” out of the sin. Christ will forgive their sin not because they have earned forgiveness, but as an act of pure love, pure grace. By conscientiously serving another, a repenting sinner can feel the Holy Ghost helping him in that service, and the Holy Ghost carries Christ’s approval and love to the one who serves under such circumstances. For someone without any serious repentance to complete, the process works the same way—serve another, and feel the Atonement working in your life.
Satan tries to separate man from God. If we are alone without God and Christ, we are in the adversary’s power. Satan tries to separate men from one another. In the Book of Mormon, we see how successful he was in separating the Lamanites from the Nephites. Satan’s efforts continue in our day, separating nation from nation, race from race, class from class, men from women.
Christ’s Atonement joins us—man to God, men to one another as brothers and sisters. As we become closer and closer to God along the vertical axis of the Atonement, both our yearning and our ability to bring the blessings of the Atonement to others grows along the horizontal axis. Our love for others increases as we comprehend the magnitude of the love that Heavenly Father and Christ have for us and understand that they have the same love for each of our brothers and sisters.
We desire to become the hands of God. We desire to constantly act as representatives of Christ wherever we are through a smile, a kind word, a helping hand.
David P. Vandagriff
Need Thee Every Hour – Applying the Atonement in Everyday Life
The greatest work of Christ is centered upon His Atonement. So long as there is anyone in pain, His work will continue. So long as there is anyone suffering under the burden of sin, His work will continue. So long as there is anyone who is afraid or lonely, His work will continue. So long as there is anyone who sorrows, His work will continue. So long as there is anyone who has been faithful and who needs to be lifted up and brought back to their Heavenly Father, His work will continue.
David P. Vandagriff
I Need Thee Every Hour – Applying the Atonement in Everyday Life
Sometimes my world seems to be a billiards table where I am a billiard ball. When I am at rest, I can look around and view my life circumstances clearly. I can see other balls on the table, some close to me and others farther away. Because of my position on the table, there are also billiard balls I cannot see because my vision is blocked by intervening balls.
When the pool cue strikes me, I begin to move in a straight line. I can look ahead and predict where that straight line will take me and my future seems very clear. Then I hit something, a glancing strike against another billiard ball that slightly alters my path. Next, my changed course sends me into a cushion that bounces me off in an entirely different direction than I supposed I was traveling. As I keep striking balls and cushions, my journey becomes more and more confusing, less and less what I thought it would be. When I finally come to rest, I am at a location far removed from where I thought I would end up.
There is, of course, another perspective on the billiards table, one much different from mine—high above the table looking down. The difference in perspective is profound. A bank shot looks and feels much different to the billiard ball than it does to the billiards player.
Speaking to Isaiah, the Lord said, “For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways” (Isaiah 55:7)
David P. Vandagriff
I Need Thee Every Hour – Applying the Atonement in Everyday Life
Satan tries to separate man from God. If we are alone without God and Christ, we are in the adversary’s power. Satan tries to separate men from one another. In the Book of Mormon, we see how successful he was in separating the Lamanites from the Nephites. Satan’s efforts continue in our day, separating nation from nation, race from race, class from class, men from women.
Christ’s Atonement joins us—men to God and men to one another as brothers and sisters. As we become closer and closer to God because of the influence of the Atonement in our lives, both our yearning and our ability to bring the blessings of the Atonement to others grows. Our love for others increases as we comprehend the magnitude of the love that Heavenly Father and Christ have for us and as we understand that these two infinite and eternal Beings have the same love for each of our brothers and sisters. We then desire to become the hands of God. We desire to constantly act as representatives of Christ wherever we are, be it through a smile, a kind word, a helping hand.
David P. Vandagriff
I Need Thee Every Hour – Applying the Atonement in Everyday Life
The greatest work of Christ is centered upon His Atonement. So long as there is anyone in pain, His work will continue. So long as there is anyone suffering under the burden of sin, His work will continue. So long as there is anyone who is afraid or lonely, His work will continue. So long as there is anyone who sorrows, His work will continue. So long as there is anyone who has been faithful and who needs to be lifted up and brought back to their Heavenly Father, His work will continue.
David P. Vandagriff
I Need Thee Every Hour – Applying the Atonement in Everyday Life
If we are to respond to tribulation by either growing out of it or growing strong enough to bear it more easily, we must know that Christ is focused on saving us. We are often greatly tempted to doubt in times of immense pain. We doubt ourselves and our righteousness. We doubt that our God and our Savior are really paying much attention to us. Some wonder if there even is a God, and others feel that he has turned his back to them. These are the times of chastening, of tutelage, of testing, of preparation of our souls for a future harvest.
If you are not going to trust a loving father and a Savior who died to save you, who are you going to trust in a world full of difficulties? Do you think you can trust in yourself alone? Are you powerful enough to overcome all things? Do you always know the right answer?
I know good people who have experienced enormous trials and, as a result, have lost trust in Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ. These friends have allowed their great pain to swell into a consuming anger. They have then ironically directed that anger toward the only Beings who can relieve their pain. There is no solace in such anger nor is there any ability to keep adversity at bay by keeping God away. By responding angrily toward a loving Savior, the original tragedy is only compounded.
You may have had terrible experiences come into your life, experiences for which you bear no blame. Such life events may have scarred you deeply and damaged your ability to trust anyone or anything. In some ways, the pain of the innocent can exceed the pain of the guilty in this life. To you I would ask a simple question. Do you want to continue living in your world of pain? If you do not, I ask another question. Do you know how to move out of your world of pain?
Jesus Christ is the God of broken people, the God of the hopeless, the God of the violated innocent, the God of ruined lives, the God of those who weep without ceasing. He is also and always will be the God of fresh starts, the God of new lives, the God of inner peace. His greatest ministry is where there is the greatest pain. There is no place so dark that He will not enter and bring a gentle and warming light.
“Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.” (Matthew 11:28)
David P. Vandagriff
I Need Thee Every Hour – Applying the Atonement in Everyday Life